Does anyone else working outside the house get frustrated with hubby?

My DD is teething and is very unhappy the past couple of days. I only work 2 nights a week. She is on a routine, we watch Shushybye's then sing Twinkle Little star, then change her to her PJ's, bottle, then bed. Bed time is about 9 pm. Well I got home tonight at 11:30 from work and she was still up ?! He was so proud of himself because she was happy and not crying. I am so mad at him for not sticking to the routine, he is just happy that she is happy. Am I wrong? Good god I only work 2 nights a week, that is all it takes to break a babies routine. But I hate getting on him too hard cause he really is trying.